Complaint Review: Vintage Body Spa - Louisville Kentucky

Alyssa Middleton has never been taken to task on her story.  This woman manipulated and had more of an impact on my life then any death, divorce, or mishap that has ever occured in my life. I have been patient in my response to Alyssa. Nearly 10 years later I still become nauseous when I hear her lies. I literally vomit.

I am Alyssa's 'abuser'.  I understand that she is now about hustling a product.  Hustling an identity. Hustling herself. 

I challenge Alyssa to post legal documents and testimony to back up her 'story' of abuse.  I was never charged with ANY form of domestic violence: nor was I accused.  Now Alyssa is an 'expert' and gives her 'survivor' story and it is nothing short of disguisting and and a smack in the face to those that are true victims. I support any philanthropic/altruistic venture but when you pony it up with a product to claim that as your identity, cause, character, or experience?  This is an ethical and moralistic crime.

It is not about what Alyssa says...but what she does not say! I am more then willing to provide all TRUE events and what occured between me and Alyssa. I fell for Alyssa in the same way people fall for her story now.  I believed her to be a true feminist, fighter, and found her to be nothing other then a bitter woman who abused her body with men as I had alcohol at the time. I felt bad for Alyssa and felt she was delt a bad hand in reguards to men. I felt that my experience with the 12 steps and my recovery from drinking could help her and her pain of self admitted issues with abandonment, co-dependencey, and anger towards men.  This was the worst mistake of my life.

My mother was a victim of domestic violence. I had challenged bullies, abusers, and chauvinism my entire life and Alyssa knew the ultimate insult to me would to be to put me in this category. 

I relapsed on my birthday and had challenged Alyssa as to why another man's belt was in my laundry basket. Alyssa had 80 sexual partners by the time she was 24 and I seen that she abused her body, relationships, and self esteem in a similiar way as I had alcohol.  Yet I was always the one under the microscope.  I never bucked against Alyssa because I didn't want to lose her. I allowed her ex's to call and her to visit them as she does to this day. I pity her husband who should learn who Joe is in Missouri or Evans is in Montana.  Who most likely I has not idea (as I had not) of her addiction.

As far as Alyssa being 'found'?  Nobody in St Louis would take her in because she had absolutely no friends. Over our 6 month (3 years of knowing one another) nobody called the house for her. The only 2 people I knew her to talk to said she 'recycles her ex's ' and would not allow her to live with them again due to her constant changes of identity.  l*****n, Christian, Judaism, the list goes on as does her 6 month leases living with a new man on their dollar.  She had to leave St Louis not due to abuse but her treatment of others...nobody would take her in.  I am happy she had children and cornered a man into marriage. I am more then happy that I am not that man.

My only crime I had commited with Alyssa is that I had called her some choice words. She claimed I had said threatened her life. She knows the buzz words and red flags one must mention in order to exact revenge. Not justice. Anyone in their right mind would never sleep next to somebody who has ever done that. Nor would she...hence why it never happened. I was a doormat to Alyssa. I lost my identity with Alyssa and now have one that (on paper) looks as if I am a abuser. I violated a restraining order by calling her and asking what, where, and why she was doing what she was doing.  I was a rebound as many others in her past and my time had expired, but that doesnt justify where she went with the legal avenue. I served a jail sentence for refusing to go to a class for rapists and domestic violence. There is no anger management classes (which everyone could benefit from) in MO and because I wasnt willing to lose my pride to something I wasn't accused of? The perfect storm of an over ambitious prosecutor, probation officer, and judge I was sent to jail.  18 months for a misdemeanor of calling an ex who had a restraining order on me, and refusing to attend a class that deals with rapists and batterers. This is why Alyssa changed her name. This is why she was scared. Not because of what happened but because of what happened in response to our arguement.  If somebody was sent to jail for 18 months for my blowfish story in which I was emailing his mother and himself claiming that its no big deal and her last words with me were "I love you" ....and ""Forever?" 

Alyssa never went into hiding. She has been hiding from herself and its a sad, depressing, tragic story that I have moved on from.  After 15 minutes of Googling I found out she had made a living from this story of abuse. I suggest as any TRUE survivor of anything that she disclose the facts. Her own testimony is "He is not abusive but when he drinks I dont know what to expect."  Fair enough.  That is why I don't drink.  I simply could not move forward in life with an unfaithful partner and not sticking up for myself. 

These comments can be backed up by legal documents, testimony, and character witnesses.  I was never charged with ANY form of domestic violence.  I simply expect respect from any intimate partner and I am blessed to have that now.  Feel free to reply and I will answer ALL and EVERY question that is asked.  Unlike those who have no story but feel the need to make one to make them credible, legit, and pander to a market of moms who are baby loving Christians.  Low hanging fruit. Its a patheitc move as a human to feel zero remorse and up the ante to back up your wrong. 2 wrongs don't make a right and in this case a million wrongs. 

I pray that Alyssa's hatred, spite, bitterness will one day reside and that she can be that "eco-friendly, christian mother, and super happy CEO of VBS" will one day come true.  In the meantime, every person you worked with in the past or had any relationship with knows better.  Alyssa should have been diposed then and you should be now.  Alyssa would never make her testimony of a victim under oath. Because she never was one.  Purchasing a product from a phony story is like putting money in a cancer victims jar that does not have cancer.