Steve
Tucson,#2Consumer Suggestion
Tue, June 14, 2005
You seem to be blaming the messenger. Eharmony can only "match" the people who sign up with it. I have becomse so disillusioned with online dating services that I just gave up with it and went back to the old fashioned way of meeting people - getting out there and living a life. And don't think women are any different than men. Sure, lots of guys who go in for the online dating services are just looking for a quick roll in the hay - there are many women who join who base their responses on the car the guy drives or the size of his stock portfolio. When I show up at a lady's house, I deliberately bring my Chevy Cavalier on the first date to see her reaction. If I like what I see (and not just physically) the Camaro is used for subsequent dates. Many times the Cavalier is the deal-killer in her mind and I get the brush-off. C'est la vie. I never let on to what I make or the size of my wealth (both are considerable). Superficiality is not just a male trait - it is universal. Accept it. Deal with it.