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Complaint Review: Jinger Kelson Coldwell Banker - Knoxville TN

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Harmed party - Fort Worth, United States
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Jinger Kelson Coldwell Banker
Knoxville, TN, United States
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Tell us has your experience with this business or person been good? What's this?

I need an answer to this, Jinger. How is what I experienced any less than being gang raped? Imagine being gang raped and not believed. Jim used to throw things out the window of a moving car as a four year old child. He pulled the keys out of the ignition (you could do that in the 60's) and threw them out the window when Mom was driving.

We could never find them and we had to get another car as a result. Does this make Jim a sociopath? Robert Kelson tried to psychologically assault me (at age 45) over something I did when I was two years old. He used this in a bizarre argument that I was mentally ill. I had just completed the GOLFWEEK SCORING SYSTEM A YEAR BEFORE. Payne Stewart was going to use my invention. I wasn't mentally ill. I was one of the greatest innovators in America.

My product became SHOTLINK when IBM got around my patent. The same patent that Jim's father tried stealing from his son. This is the true story of the most fu**ed up family in America. Not ONE OF....the worst. These are the stories that Jim Kelson, Jinger Kelson are trying to cover up.

These stories get MUCH, MUCH worse. There is a brutality & cruelty that is abhorrent that were commonplace in the Kelson family. Jim would have NEVER been hired at Tennessee if this was known about his family. In fact, this idea will be released in Jan 2020. All coaches should have a pre hire investigation about their family of origin.

All customers of Jim Kelson & Jinger Kelson should encourage both of them to own up to these horrific acts and make amends. Brother Kelson wants these to come out into the open and discuss them. Acknowledge that these sadistic acts occurred and answer questions to an investigator so the source of these acts can be identified.

This is necessary for closure. Answer a series of questions before Dec 15th 2019 or the entire list of cruelties will be posted. They are every bit as heinous as the worst acts in history. The incredible cruelty of this family will be made legendary if they don't come clean and discuss these events and how they were manipulated, back doored behind the brothers back and all truth about the events GASLIGHTED by members of the Kelson family.

Robert Kelson was the most abusive father in America. Several of his children followed in his steps, while one became kind, generous, open hearted. These qualities became his downfall. There are as many lies passed through the Kelson family (in the background) as the number used by Donald Trump. There was no difference between the Trump lies and Kelson lies when all these events took place.

There was no personality disorder. The doctor has been contacted and the results of the test will be made known. Jim's father was trying to steal the rights to the patent (worth millions) is why he used all these lies about his OWN SON. Every one of you participated in these gruesome events. Every one of you were used in these horrific acts of abuse.

Jinger, you DO NOT WANT WHAT YOU PEOPLE DID TO THIS MAN becoming public knowledge. All the Kelson lies, all the family secrets, all Jims secrets he wants hidden from the world will come out by Dec 15th, 2019 unless Jinger Kelson agrees to answer questions about the horrific abuses and events. Contact your brother in law immediately.

REFERENCES "The narcissist is as much an artist of pain as any sadist. The difference between them lies in their motivation. The narcissist tortures and abuses as means to punish and to reassert superiority, omnipotence, and grandiosity. The sadist does it for pure (usually, sexually-tinged) pleasure. But both are adept at finding the chinks in people's armours.

Both are ruthless and venomous in the pursuit of their prey. " Dr Sam Vaknin See video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_yvhtGIuc-w Dr Linda Martinez- Lewi describes this family perfectly "In these families, siblings of the blooming psychopathic golden child are treated with the harshest, basest cruelties. Parents of these "privileged golden children” simply look the other way, immune to the treacheries of their psychological and emotional crimes.

Many of you have been caught in the psychopathic web of lies, deceits, manipulations and cruelties. The psychological, emotional and financial damage that they continue to do and have done cannot be understated. " AND Secret Treacheries of Covert Narcissistic Siblings thenarcissistinyourlife.com/blog/ "Treachery is a mortal betrayal of trust, especially among family members.

Covert narcissists are sly, smooth and sneaky–very difficult to detect. As the covert narcissistic sibling reaches adulthood, the psychopathology remains unchanged and the victimization of the sibling continues in a cruel, cunning form. Narcissists are often obsessed with money–It is their god, their compass, their identity. "



4 Updates & Rebuttals

Brother Kelson

Fort Worth,
Texas,
United States
You aren't even close to being a professional in mental health

#2Author of original report

Thu, November 21, 2019

Anyone who is a professional in that field wouldn't make the comments you have made.  "REAL VICTIMS" is a preposterous comment.  In fact, I doubt you're even in the mental health field.  You speak of victims of a crime.  I invite you to google " victims of emotional abuse characteristics"   

 
 "As for your "psychological" babble I deal with individuals who are in must worse situations that this on a DAILY basis so please don't tell me how mental abuse is." Here are actual experts. Perhaps you should seek additional training, as it is PLAINLY CLEAR you don't know what you're talking about. In fact, you are BULLYING as a 3rd party. This is commonplace with the Kelson's. They have used this technique for over 15 years. Anyone who's a professional could spot this in an instant.
 
 Professor Sam Vaknin, a world's authority on abuse writes: " If all else fails, the abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates, family members, the authorities, institutions, neighbors, the media, teachers – in short, third parties, a kind of "flying monkeys” – to do his bidding. He uses them to cajole, coerce, threaten, stalk, offer, retreat, tempt, convince, harass, communicate and otherwise manipulate his target. He controls these unaware instruments exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. He employs the same mechanisms and devices. And he dumps his props unceremoniously when the job is done. One form of control by proxy is to engineer situations in which abuse is inflicted upon another person. Such carefully crafted scenarios of embarrassment and humiliation provoke social sanctions (condemnation, opprobrium, or even physical punishment) against the victim. Society, or a social group become the instruments of the abuser. Abusers often use other people to do their dirty work for them. These - sometimes unwitting - accomplices belong to three groups: I. The abuser's social milieu Some offenders - mainly in patriarchal and misogynist societies – co-opt other family members, friends, and colleagues into aiding and abetting their abusive conduct....... " 
 
PLEASE REVIEW THE FOLLOWING VIDEOS for your additional training & needed increase in empathy .
 
"Narcissists are aided, abetted and facilitated by four types of people and institutions: the adulators, the blissfully ignorant, the self-deceiving and those deceived by the narcissist." (right click & choose search Google for ..) 
 
 
Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D. talks about different styles of narcissists: Screamers who always turn up the volume to get whatever they want; Passive Aggressives who control people through the Silent Treatment.
 Sue Kelson routinely SCREAMED at the top of her lungs 
 
 
"Covert narcissists are clever betrayers. They operate in the shadows, quick to dispose of and replace you. " https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEKFmKsptkQ 
 
Covert Narcissists - Their Sadistic Drive to Psychologically Injure You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3edj_NMjc2Y&t=8s 
 
Dr Simon believes abuse like what I suffered is the #1 public health epidemic in America. Please continue your training b/c few social workers understand abuse, narcissism, seriously dysfunctional families, group bullying, mobbing, shaming and the psychological damage that results from such awful behaviors 
 
"Dr. Simon is a clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience working with people who have character disturbances and use covert aggression as well as the targets/survivors of their manipulative behavior. I ask him some questions about his very insightful knowledge and expertise, applying it to the struggles of those of us who have survived narcissistic abuse. " https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-Vv0qpK_mE&t=60s 
 
"Psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths are dangerous people. They destroy entire families, and people in numbers. Put a psychopath in a harmonious situation, and people will suddenly begin to hate one another. Psychopaths, narcissists and sociopaths have absolutely no empathy, a lack of emotion, and will cross their husband or wife, children, cousins’, brothers’ and sisters’ at the drop of a hat.” 
 
 
 
I believe you are BULLYING vs trying to solve any problems with this dysfunctional family. There is a very long history of abuse in this family, starting with Robert Kelson.
 "He's only happy when he has everyone around here going nuts" Margret Kelson about Jim Kelson's father 1998 
 
"He's a bully " "He's an abuser" He's passive aggressive" Margret Kelson in 1999 
 
All we want is an investigation into who started the FAMILY abuse behind the brothers back. the Kelsons have used continual lies to harm their brother. One being "He blames other people" used when he had never blamed another person in HIS LIFE. Only time he did was when he discovered members of the family were formally & technically abusive vs 'just being mean'

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Stacey

United States
Really??

#3Consumer Comment

Thu, November 21, 2019

I have worked in this field with victims of SA, DV and other violent crimes ie: real victims. I am a LSW and have dealt with people who have been maimed, assaulted (a client of mine was stabbed 15 times behind my home) and plenty of stories to tell about real victims of abuse. SO if you are a TRUE victim of abuse did you file a Protective Order against this individual?? Did you seek help throught the Police Dept, local agency that deals with abuse or through the courts???

As for your "psychological" babble I deal with individuals who are in must worse situations that this on a DAILY basis so please don't tell me how mental abuse is. YOU are just spouting nonsense and I suggest if what you say is true then seek assistance from an agency that can deal with this "abuse". If not you are just slandering another individual and can be held liable for this. 


Harmed party

Fort Worth,
Texas,
United States
Abuse is a very serious issue, Stacey

#4Author of original report

Sun, November 17, 2019

PART 1 In her seminal tome, "The Verbally Abusive Relationship", Patricia Evans lists the various forms of manipulation which together constitute verbal and emotional (psychological) abuse: Withholding (the silent treatment), countering (refuting or invalidating the spouse's statements or actions), discounting (putting down her emotions, possessions, experiences, hopes, and fears), sadistic and brutal humor, blocking (avoiding a meaningful exchange, diverting the conversation, changing the subject), blaming and accusing, judging and criticizing, undermining and sabotaging, threatening, name calling, forgetting and denying, ordering around, denial, and abusive anger.

To these we can add: Wounding "honesty", ignoring, smothering, dotting, unrealistic expectations, invasion of privacy, tactlessness, sexual abuse, physical maltreatment, humiliating, shaming, insinuating, lying, exploiting, devaluing and discarding, being unpredictable, reacting disproportionately, dehumanizing, objectifying, abusing confidence and intimate information, engineering impossible situations, control by proxy and ambient abuse.

I EXPERIENCED EVERY ONE OF THESE BEHAVIORS, STACEY PART 2 They are manipulative; they mislead people inside and outside of the family about his abusiveness, he twists arguments around to make other people feel at fault, and he turns into a sweet, sensitive person for extended periods of time when he feels that it is in his best interest to do so.

His public image usually contrasts sharply with the private reality. SOURCE : Dr. Sam Vaknin, the preeminent authority on the subject http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily2.html


Stacey

Texas,
United States
What the hell?

#5Consumer Comment

Sun, November 17, 2019

Your report makes no sense at all!!! Seek counseling asap

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