Jeanski
Buffalo,#2Consumer Comment
Mon, October 15, 2012
Thank God your mother has a conscientious son like you who cares about her :-) Too many of our elders have no one to advocate for them.
My mother (age 82) was in a rehab facility (the best in our town) following knee replacement surgery. After one week she had a debilitating case of c.diff, which is a bacterial infection of the gut. She lost almost 40 pounds from the vomiting and diarrhea. In addition, she's incontinent from a previous stroke and they didn't change her often enough. She ended up with open, raw sores on her bottom. My brother called me and we decided to bring her home. Within two days I had the sores healing up and the c.diff being treated.
We are fortunate that my mother has the financial means to afford the best care, but we sure couldn't find it! I now stay home and take care of her full time.
I know not all people have the resources we have (both financial and familial) to care for their parents at home but I'm convinced it's the best option.