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  • Report:  #67685

Complaint Review: Theodore P Gray And His Attornies - Waterford Michigan

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- Farmington Hills, Michigan,
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Theodore P Gray And His Attornies
2558 Silverside Dr. Waterford MI 48335 Waterford, 48328 Michigan, U.S.A.
Phone:
512-5122968
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Upon moving into the home of my husband when we married in Sept 1999 while putting clothes in the closet I ran across, very close up graphic teen pornography and notes on Chrysler financial note paper.

I said nothing at first,liking sex thought "oh good he is not the goodie two shoes he puts on in puplic". I did finally mention it casually, like "I heard you could get porn on the internet! Have you ever seen naked pitcures? He denied.

Time passed out great love and sex was getting worse. He had ok'ed me to leave my job and benifits so we could travel. Within 6 months his sex got awful and rushed, violence and cuting me down began as did severe control. I was heart broken.

His spending was out of control and he demandid I get a job. This story can be long I will try to condence it.

We were in love and enjoyed many of the same hobbies, but I was lonely and getting my self esteen ripped apart often.

He planned well in advance to ruien my life and was socking money away. I tried to prepare myself with getting into Real Estate. weeks later the bomb dropped I had taken my lap top into work for them to set up on the network...............it was full of porn. AI went home and looked in one place and found a stack an inch or more thick all from the computer, splattered with wet spots.

No one believes me a srink I saw from the Crysler network said I ws dilusional of his porn, i even showed him the photos and computer scans. This man is sick, he has left me with nothing, no home (a 600,000 home on the lake I spotted as a good deal) a 2000 Viper, boat, still has his job which he steels from all the time.

He also had a family member help beat me up badly on the arms, back and head. then let me go and blocked me from the house. I was terrified, and hid in the car. he then called the police a second time and said "hurry up she is trying to run us over!"

I was badly hurt and also have a muscle condition Fibromyalgia, I could barely walk for the police, I begged for medical treatment, they promiced but never delivered me to the hospital.

I fell as they were pulling me faster than I could walk (this I told them) dangeling buy the cuffs in front of my body my wrists were hurt very bad and excessive forse was used.

I pleeded to them I had been the victom, they said shut up, and that was many times. I begged for tissue at the house they refused, over and hour still asking for tissue and suffering from severe sinus problems I had to release it to the floor and wall as well as my clothes.

I was treated brutally and I was not a flight problem as I could barely walk. I have medical records to cover all of this. They caused me to fall and I bumped and officer with the inside of my ankle as I had a slight bruse there the next day. I was set up by my husband and Dan Dowd for pure money motivation.

My life is ruiened, I have lost everything. My mother has been stuck with my care, I am disabled, but have no disability. My husband is the senior manager for the dodge dealers advertisers asociation, so with a big title and a nack for hiding his addictions he is winning. I have lost almost $100,000.00 to lawyers, now have a guardian.

I have been treated unfairly because the Judge able Judge Hallmark doesn't like me and thinks my husband is the poor abused husband. What has happened to me is beyond normal, one lawyer took me for $35-400,000 and did not even write up orders that were ok'ed in court (on tape) the next lied too and changed his whole tone after deposition of my husband who is a pathological lier, and a negotiater for a living.

I still have none of my posetions. I will get no settlement, 4 lawyers have their hand out. I feel the system sucks, I feel dead inside. no matter what I do it is a waste.

help me

Debra

Farmington Hills, Michigan
U.S.A.



13 Updates & Rebuttals

Debra

Farmington Hills,
Michigan,
U.S.A.
Theodore P, Gray And His Attornies

#2Author of original report

Mon, January 30, 2012

Reply to:
S - Corpus Christi (U.S.A.

Thank you I am not nuts, please read my reply written today (January 30,2012) to these ..........defending myself. 

I did not find legal help that worked for me, but otherwise much healing and counselling has proved usefull.

What I wrote was true.  I am glad it is over.  I am better off today!


Debra

Farmington Hills,
Michigan,
U.S.A.
Theodore P, Gray And His Attornies

#3Author of original report

Mon, January 30, 2012

To Wanda

Thank you for trying to stick up for me.  If you find this please read my rebuttal to the other written today Jan. 30,2012
I was abused and also telling the truth however strange it sounded.  My life now is good and I am happy that I am alive and away from that creep.  It took me a year and a half to get my property back from this controlling creep.  All is well with me and I am not nuts!  :-)


Debra

Farmington Hills,
Michigan,
U.S.A.
Theodore P, Gray And His Attornies

#4Author of original report

Mon, January 30, 2012

To Boz,

I am sorry but you are wrong.  Your diagnosis of me is incorrect.  What I wrote may have been with improper grammar or sounded as though I was dreaming it all up but I was not. Many years have gone past now and I am not a delusional person 
as you said.  What I wrote however improper my grammar and such were.... was true.  This person was a sick man.  

As I said years have passed and I am no longer angry.  What I am is darned lucky to have gotten out of that h**l hole alive.  My life and my mental state is stable and happy.  

Many people are abused as I was.  Now it is also found that many people are indeed addicted to pornography.  He also was doing what is called on the Down Low and going out and having sex with Men!

The computer was covered with Gay porn in the later years as his addiction escalated to provide him what he needed.  There were sited Called Rimming the tree for Christmas......which had groups of Men having sex both oral and anally with each other.  What he was doing was having a secret life that I exposed.  Shutting me up was his means to continuing his lifestyle and keeping his Mr innocent profile.  I was abused.  I am glad I am out of there.  I am happy and alive!

Maybe your should study up on it (Porn addiction).  I am not and do not have any sexual insecurities at all and as you said.  
YOUR words: " almost always has issues with sex and the idea that powerful organizations are working towards his or her downfall because he or she "Knows" what is rally going on.

You are wrong.  I was abused.  

At the time I wrote that  from 2003 -2005 I had severe PTSD from what I went though......yes I guess that is a mental issue....and I also suffer from depression.  

However I am a good person and I know what happened to me was REAL.  I do however apologize for my rushing and having improper grammar and spelling.  That said, it is all I apologize for.  I told the truth, however poorly it was written!
 

Thank you  




Debra

Farmington Hills,
Michigan,
U.S.A.
Theodore P, Gray And His Attornies

#5Author of original report

Mon, January 30, 2012

Everything I wrote here was true.  I am NOT ill nor did I make any of this up.  Yes my grammar was not proper, I was writing quickly out of anger.  

Today, I am no longer angry.  What I am is glad I was able to get away from that monster alive.


S

Corpus Christi,
Texas,
U.S.A.
Did you ever consider...

#6Consumer Comment

Thu, July 19, 2007

that there are really bad people out there in the world. First of all, yes her grammar is bad....but my finance's grammar is just as bad..but guess what he DOES make a living for himself.....HE'S A COACH! Bad grammar has nothing to do with it....you guys are just assuming that because of it..this lady is..hmmm..shall we say a little "special." I personally don't think I'm optimistic all of the time..but I do know that I have seen people in her situation taken advantage of time and time again....now the beatings...who knows if that is going on..but as far as the other items of her husband being into pornography and using the company, IT HAPPENS.....him leaving and no one being able to take care of her....IT HAPPENS...him leaving and taking everything denying her any right to the property that they had together...IT HAPPENS...a judge believing the husband over the woman (that might look, sound, or act a little "special")...HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. So how can you take pieces out of someones story and make it seem like their delusional? No matter what background he has...Tim...you can't diagnose someone off of what they write...Ma'am...I hope you find the help from a DECENT person that will represent you the way that you need to be represented.....


S

Corpus Christi,
Texas,
U.S.A.
Did you ever consider...

#7Consumer Comment

Thu, July 19, 2007

that there are really bad people out there in the world. First of all, yes her grammar is bad....but my finance's grammar is just as bad..but guess what he DOES make a living for himself.....HE'S A COACH! Bad grammar has nothing to do with it....you guys are just assuming that because of it..this lady is..hmmm..shall we say a little "special." I personally don't think I'm optimistic all of the time..but I do know that I have seen people in her situation taken advantage of time and time again....now the beatings...who knows if that is going on..but as far as the other items of her husband being into pornography and using the company, IT HAPPENS.....him leaving and no one being able to take care of her....IT HAPPENS...him leaving and taking everything denying her any right to the property that they had together...IT HAPPENS...a judge believing the husband over the woman (that might look, sound, or act a little "special")...HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. So how can you take pieces out of someones story and make it seem like their delusional? No matter what background he has...Tim...you can't diagnose someone off of what they write...Ma'am...I hope you find the help from a DECENT person that will represent you the way that you need to be represented.....


S

Corpus Christi,
Texas,
U.S.A.
Did you ever consider...

#8Consumer Comment

Thu, July 19, 2007

that there are really bad people out there in the world. First of all, yes her grammar is bad....but my finance's grammar is just as bad..but guess what he DOES make a living for himself.....HE'S A COACH! Bad grammar has nothing to do with it....you guys are just assuming that because of it..this lady is..hmmm..shall we say a little "special." I personally don't think I'm optimistic all of the time..but I do know that I have seen people in her situation taken advantage of time and time again....now the beatings...who knows if that is going on..but as far as the other items of her husband being into pornography and using the company, IT HAPPENS.....him leaving and no one being able to take care of her....IT HAPPENS...him leaving and taking everything denying her any right to the property that they had together...IT HAPPENS...a judge believing the husband over the woman (that might look, sound, or act a little "special")...HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. So how can you take pieces out of someones story and make it seem like their delusional? No matter what background he has...Tim...you can't diagnose someone off of what they write...Ma'am...I hope you find the help from a DECENT person that will represent you the way that you need to be represented.....


S

Corpus Christi,
Texas,
U.S.A.
Did you ever consider...

#9Consumer Comment

Thu, July 19, 2007

that there are really bad people out there in the world. First of all, yes her grammar is bad....but my finance's grammar is just as bad..but guess what he DOES make a living for himself.....HE'S A COACH! Bad grammar has nothing to do with it....you guys are just assuming that because of it..this lady is..hmmm..shall we say a little "special." I personally don't think I'm optimistic all of the time..but I do know that I have seen people in her situation taken advantage of time and time again....now the beatings...who knows if that is going on..but as far as the other items of her husband being into pornography and using the company, IT HAPPENS.....him leaving and no one being able to take care of her....IT HAPPENS...him leaving and taking everything denying her any right to the property that they had together...IT HAPPENS...a judge believing the husband over the woman (that might look, sound, or act a little "special")...HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. So how can you take pieces out of someones story and make it seem like their delusional? No matter what background he has...Tim...you can't diagnose someone off of what they write...Ma'am...I hope you find the help from a DECENT person that will represent you the way that you need to be represented.....


Timothy

Valparaiso,
Indiana,
U.S.A.
Good point, but . . .

#10Consumer Comment

Sat, December 17, 2005

Well, Wanda, first of all Boz stated that he was a retired professional. I don't know exactly what that means, but I assume it means that he knows something about human behavior. Me? I have had plenty of personal, professional, and educational experience with people who have skewed views of reality. This report screams of such a trait. If you are too naive to see that, than I admire your otimistic and trusting nature, but reality seems to have escaped you.


Wanda

Lassamer,
Tennessee,
U.S.A.
Pardon??? who made you experts in psychiatry

#11Consumer Comment

Thu, December 08, 2005

To the two who have responded to this post so far I'm wondering who made you experts in psychiatry. She never said there was a conspiracy between several institutions, companies, or professions to ruin her life. And anyone who thinks that police and judges and lawyers are above corruption and brutality and completely twisting things to serve themselves or those they want to serve... uh.. what planet are you from? LOL


TIm

Valparaiso,
Indiana,
U.S.A.
Debra, heed Boz's advice for your own good

#12Consumer Comment

Sat, September 27, 2003

Debra... you tell a sad tale, and I do have a great deal of sympathy for you, but I think it would be wise of you to heed Boz's advice. Your story rings of the conspiratorial rantings of someone who is deeply deluded and extremely troubled. It's easy to see that you have been through a bad marriage and are now dealing with a very difficult situation. How this situation ultimately gets resolved will depend largely on how you respond to it. The best thing you can do for yourself is to get a little perspective on your own behavior and the way it is affecting the people around you. You currently are of the mindset that everybody is against you, and that everybody is wrong but you. take a step back from the situation and seek the real reason why people are responding to and treating you in the manners you describe. All the profesionals you speak of, psychiatrists, lawyers, judges, police, are held to very high standards and liable for large malpractice suits and professional humiliation if they do their jobs wrong. As easy as it may be for you to think that they are all in cahoots, trying to sabotage your life, I have a hard time buying it. Seek out the help you desparately need, learn to recognize what is and isn't appropraite behavior, and your situation will ultimately find resolution. It may not be a resolution you are entirely happy with, but for the sake of your own sanity and the peace of mind of those who care about you, you need a different approach. Best of luck to you.


Boz

Nashville,
Arizona,
U.S.A.
Professional Advice

#13Consumer Comment

Sat, September 27, 2003

Howdy Deb, I am a retired professional and I have some advice for you. I would guess that you are white and between 32 and 40 years of age. You are probably taking Psychiatric and Pain medications. You are most likely not in total control of your reality field because no one who uses such atrocious spelling and grammar in day to day life could ever hold any type of job with an income necessary to provide support. Whether or not your husband uses pornography or not is irrelevant to this matter. You are showing signs which follow the model of psychotic behavior patterns and, if you are not receiving care at present, I would strongly suggest that you do. Somewhere in your statement there are legitimate complaints, however; if you persist along the lines your are now traveling, you will not find many sympathetic listeners. Why? Because the text are crammed full of studies which echo your complaints almost word for word and certainly by inference. That's why they are called text book cases. A delusional person almost always has issues with sex and the idea that powerful organizations are working towards his or her downfall because he or she "Knows" what is rally going on. Deb, that stuff is good for bad TV, but in real life. it just doesn't make sense. I could go on about how your heightened sense of self is causing you to feel more important than normal and, therefore, it is easy to accept the idea that persons in high places are spending huge amounts of time and dollars to shut you up. If this was really the case, they would just have some street crook kill you for a couple of hundred bucks and it would have happened two years ago. Please forget that nonsense and use the help you are getting or get some new help. Please think about it.


Debra

Farmington Hills,
Michigan,
U.S.A.
On the evening of Febuary 20, 2003 My Gray struck me by a backhand motion on my left cheek, Police came, did nothing for me, no arrest.

#14Author of original report

Sat, September 27, 2003

The next morning looking for my groceries in his Jeep provided by the company as a free decutive car. These grocries were stollen from the home just after I purchased them with my support money of $175 per week. I attempted to enter the jeep after Ted unlocked the door and let up the garage, he ran to call the police. I looked as I was about to lift the gate and he was watching from the door he clearly said "GET HER!" I was attacked and thrown down being hit in the back and head with dan Dowd's fist as he lay his body upon me I tried to throw him off and stand up, failing. Ted then joined in and pulled my left arm bashing me with the lift gate of "his free excutive company feed back car" I was beeten about the head neck and mid to lower back in a violent way. Very hurt nearly falling to the ground but scared to death of more beatings with Ted screaming at me. I tried to go into the house for safety, they swung at me and forced me to stay out side. Being in only my robe at 7am on this cold day I hid in my car. I have never been more terrified in my life. They set me up and the police believed their story. Rubbing dirt on their pants as if hit by the car. I never hurt a human, animal or even a person I may have ben mad at.............I walk away I am a baby and afraid of conflict. Ted knew this. He is a sick man. Masterbating and using porn even during business trips, via video ect. he is a discrase to the company. He uses the corporate account of Carsolson travel Master account to absorbe his whims as do many. I have seen and heard it happen many times.

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