#2Consumer Suggestion
Thu, April 11, 2002
It's awful that this happened to Marny. She didn't deserve it--no one ever does. Over a million cases of financial exploitation of seniors are reported every year. Anyone can be an exploiter: ministers, doctors, bankers, counselors, neighbors, lawyers, etc and, as is the case with Marny, family members. Michelle, take care you don't lay all of the blame on Lori--she may blame some of it on her boyfriend. I hope Marny's grandson won't stand in the way of full prosecution. Here are some warning signs of financial exploitation taken from The White Paper: Diminished alertness, which could be a sign of changed medication. A sudden change of a long-term address, or telephone number. Caregivers or relatives cut off friends and neighbors. Caregiver goes out of way to be accommodating. Bills start to pile up and become delinquent. Bank statements are missing or unavailable. The bank account changes, many fraudsters will have signature stamps made. Social patterns suddenly changechurch, club or social patterns. Usually just one caregiver/companion who may be dominating. If you suspect the worst then you should contact the possible victims relatives or the authorities immediately. Im happy that Michelle shared her painful story. Maybe it will prevent this from happening to another family.