- Report: #19652
Complaint Review: Jesse Jacar Griffin - Salt Lake City Utah
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Jesse Jacar Griffin
3795 S. 900 E. #9 Salt Lake City, 84116 Utah, U.S.A.
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Jesse Jacar Griffin dead beat dad could care less how daughter is being fed and clothed Salt Lake City Utah
Jesse Jacar Griffin age 25 owes almost $12,000 in back child support and medical bills and premiums. Jesse and I gave birth to our daughter on June 30, 1999. Jesse was employed at Voicestream wireless and was making around $32,000/year. He had medical benefits and we moved in together when I was eight months pregnant. Three months into our new life with our daughter he told me I had to go back to work. The first week I went back to work he quit his job and hasn't held down a job since. That was three years ago when our daughter was three months old. She will be 3 years old in June 2002.
Jesse's family has never offered help in financially supporting our daughter and doesn't like me because I try to make him responsible. My daughter and I have been called white trash by his black family. Jesse has had at least 25 jobs lasting no longer than one month in the last three years. I opened a case with the Office of Recovery in Utah and they told me if I can't make him work, how could they get him to work. It takes the state 45 days to track down where he is working and get all the paperwork done to garnish his wages. By the time they figure out where he is working he either quits or gets fired.
Jesse has no stable family life or residence moving from place to place mooching off friends and women who are stupid enough to like a man who doesn't support his child or childs mother.
By law Jesse is allowed to see our daughter every other weekend even if he is not supporting her financially. He exercised that right every weekend until 2 1/2 months ago. He stated our daughter basically "cramps his style" and no longer takes her. My daughter won't have anything to do with him when his name is brought up in my house. She could care less about him and she is only three...how sad is that. November 2002 Jesse never returns her from her visit and the Sherriff is called. Jesse is arrested on non related charges and has a sack of marijuana in his pocket in front of my child and has had her at a party. I know he smoked that crap in front of her. The police have been called three times on him for not returning her from her visits. I have no money to hire a private attorney and feel I get little to no help from the state.
I don't expect to ever get money or responsibilty out of this boy (not man). My daughter and I have struggled for three years to get by. With the love of my family we are doing great. We don't need his money and my daughter doesn't need his love. But I wonder how different my daughter and I would be if we had extra money to do fun things and I could buy her whatever she wanted. Eventually I will meet somebody who will provide for myself and my daughter and Jesse will be non-exsistant.
Beware women who are attracted to him now...he is a cheater, liar, not responsible and abusive...mentally, physically and verbally but that is a different story entirely.
Heather
Salt Lake City, Utah
Jesse's family has never offered help in financially supporting our daughter and doesn't like me because I try to make him responsible. My daughter and I have been called white trash by his black family. Jesse has had at least 25 jobs lasting no longer than one month in the last three years. I opened a case with the Office of Recovery in Utah and they told me if I can't make him work, how could they get him to work. It takes the state 45 days to track down where he is working and get all the paperwork done to garnish his wages. By the time they figure out where he is working he either quits or gets fired.
Jesse has no stable family life or residence moving from place to place mooching off friends and women who are stupid enough to like a man who doesn't support his child or childs mother.
By law Jesse is allowed to see our daughter every other weekend even if he is not supporting her financially. He exercised that right every weekend until 2 1/2 months ago. He stated our daughter basically "cramps his style" and no longer takes her. My daughter won't have anything to do with him when his name is brought up in my house. She could care less about him and she is only three...how sad is that. November 2002 Jesse never returns her from her visit and the Sherriff is called. Jesse is arrested on non related charges and has a sack of marijuana in his pocket in front of my child and has had her at a party. I know he smoked that crap in front of her. The police have been called three times on him for not returning her from her visits. I have no money to hire a private attorney and feel I get little to no help from the state.
I don't expect to ever get money or responsibilty out of this boy (not man). My daughter and I have struggled for three years to get by. With the love of my family we are doing great. We don't need his money and my daughter doesn't need his love. But I wonder how different my daughter and I would be if we had extra money to do fun things and I could buy her whatever she wanted. Eventually I will meet somebody who will provide for myself and my daughter and Jesse will be non-exsistant.
Beware women who are attracted to him now...he is a cheater, liar, not responsible and abusive...mentally, physically and verbally but that is a different story entirely.
Heather
Salt Lake City, Utah
4 Updates & Rebuttals
heather
salt lake city,Utah,
You have it wrong?
#2Consumer Comment
Tue, May 07, 2002
I appreciate you responding to my report and I appreciate your comments. When I say support me I don't mean financially. When I have to take my child to the doctor and miss work, then I receive no income for the time lost and then he turns around and won't pay child support or medical bills and it put me in a bind seeing as how our daughter is only three and can't work. So yes, he is not supporting me in the sense that WE had a child together and he should support me in helping raise OUR child. He is not doing that financially or physically. He basically told me he didn't want to see OUR daughter any more because she "Cramps his style". So once again I appreciate your comments but I don't expect him to support me...I don't want or need his help. All I ask for is him to be a reponsible parent, love and support his child which in turn makes my life easier.
heather
salt lake city,Utah,
You have it wrong?
#3Consumer Comment
Tue, May 07, 2002
I appreciate you responding to my report and I appreciate your comments. When I say support me I don't mean financially. When I have to take my child to the doctor and miss work, then I receive no income for the time lost and then he turns around and won't pay child support or medical bills and it put me in a bind seeing as how our daughter is only three and can't work. So yes, he is not supporting me in the sense that WE had a child together and he should support me in helping raise OUR child. He is not doing that financially or physically. He basically told me he didn't want to see OUR daughter any more because she "Cramps his style". So once again I appreciate your comments but I don't expect him to support me...I don't want or need his help. All I ask for is him to be a reponsible parent, love and support his child which in turn makes my life easier.
heather
salt lake city,Utah,
You have it wrong?
#4Consumer Comment
Tue, May 07, 2002
I appreciate you responding to my report and I appreciate your comments. When I say support me I don't mean financially. When I have to take my child to the doctor and miss work, then I receive no income for the time lost and then he turns around and won't pay child support or medical bills and it put me in a bind seeing as how our daughter is only three and can't work. So yes, he is not supporting me in the sense that WE had a child together and he should support me in helping raise OUR child. He is not doing that financially or physically. He basically told me he didn't want to see OUR daughter any more because she "Cramps his style". So once again I appreciate your comments but I don't expect him to support me...I don't want or need his help. All I ask for is him to be a reponsible parent, love and support his child which in turn makes my life easier.
E
Austin,Texas,
I feel for you
#5Consumer Suggestion
Fri, May 03, 2002
I really do. I hope you can find the objectivity to resolve this issue in the best manner for your child. However, I had one comment. You stated "women who are stupid enough to like a man who doesn't support his child or childs mother. " Keep in mind, child support is for your CHILD. Your ex bears no responsibility in supporting you financially. I would suggest rethinking your whole "entitlement mentality". That's only going to worsen the situation, if you expect him to provide for YOUR needs as well.
