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  • Report:  #1477255

Complaint Review: (((8/9/2019 - REDACTED – VIOLATION OF TERMS OF SERVICE – CONTENT))) - NYC Battery Park City

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nahgo - United States
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(((8/9/2019 - REDACTED – VIOLATION OF TERMS OF SERVICE – CONTENT)))
NYC, Battery Park City, United States
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NOW TO THE EDITORIALLY REDACTED POSTING(S):

Women should be aware. 

In May 2015, (((REDACTED))) requested a date. 

At the date it was discussed that i was a virgin, and that i'd never dated anyone before him and he was also my first date. 

He took me to his apartment after asking me if I wanted to see his dog, and proceeded to then say he was going ot kiss me. He did it anyways. 

A few days/ week later, he asked if I wanted to come over ot study, claiming he would help study for an upcomming professional exam. 

It was a trap. 

He never helped to study, instead he stayed in his room while I waited in the living room (His dgrees have a different name: (((REDACTED))) 

After about 40 minutes later, he wrapped up his legal work and came out and said he was tierd and wanted to take a nap. 

At this point I was afraid and because I didn't know him, I didn't know if he would be violent if i ran out. 

I lay next to hi, he then got up and pulled down his pants and said "I'm just going to rub my (((REDACTED)))"

I was shocked and confused, with no idea what to do, and i honestly thought he would rape me, so instead i siad just do it. I lost my virginity this way. 

My view is that he took advatage, i felt violated and a lot happened after this. He didn't respect my boundaries and proceeded despite me telling him that i was a virgin. There should have been a conversation. After this he constantly contacted me and I did see him about 6-8 times more after this. and he made empty promises and painted a future together. I think he did this to prtoect himself. He never had any interst in a relationship but if he never contacted me again after that or claimed we had a future, then he knew he would be in trouble, so he continued a sherade for a very long time at my expense. 

Women should be aware of this incident and tread carefully. My intention is solely to share this expirience so no other woman is scarred the way I am now. it was a very damaging expirience. 



4 Updates & Rebuttals

Next gen women lover

arizona,
United States
He only dates younger women

#2Consumer Comment

Sun, August 04, 2019

 This is so he can control and be a predator. He’s got a reputation of being off and overall odd with his behavior towards women.


hfjsk

arizona,
United States
You’re right. No ripoff but it is rape

#3General Comment

Sat, April 27, 2019

 This guy has a hard time understanding consensual and non-consensual


hfjsk

arizona,
United States
(((8/9/2019- REDACTED – VIOLATION OF TERMS OF SERVICE – CONTENT)))

#4General Comment

Thu, April 25, 2019

 If it talks and writes like an (((REDACTED)))


John

Takoma Park,
United States
This has to be a sick joke by a bored person...

#5General Comment

Wed, April 17, 2019

...with nothing to do but file nonsense reports here.  But pretending for a moment that I think you're sincere, why on Earth would you

1.  Tell someone that you're a virgin on your first date?  What made you think that was information someone you didn't even know needed to be told?  Did you wait for him to sit down before you told him, or was it during dessert, or what?

2.  Just lay down with someone you barely knew, and then allow him to use you sexually- oh, it's because "you thought he would rape you anyway?"  Even if you didn't fight back, you could call the police right now and file charges.  You just need to explain that you felt threatened with violence if you did not comply. 

3.  Why have you at no time involved the police in any of this?  Do you really think that a RipoffReport post is a substitute for the legal system?

4.  And here's the kicker- "I did see him 6-8 times after this..." which makes it sound like the sex wasn't all that nonconsensual- I think you'd have a hard time proving to the police that a guy you had sex with and continued to see afterwards, planning "a future together," had raped you that first time.  

Conclusion:  You had a bad first relationship experience, it ended badly, and now you are taking out your anger here at Ripoffreport.  No ripoff here.  Just an emotionally painful experience for you.  I hope you are getting therapy.  

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